That 4 letter word called love.

Love. One of those four letter words that defines much of our human existence. Every girl wants to hear it when they find "the ONE." Almost every movie made in today's society has the phrase "I love you" in it at least once. My point is our perspective of what love is supposed to be is a little skewed. Everyone wants to feel loved and accepted and our culture simply tells them to find it in the nearest guy who will give her the time of day or in temporary experiences that he should use to define the kind of man he is. It depresses me that we have gotten to this state in our world where the ones who are in a relationship with the one true Love are unable or unwilling to step out and embrace the lost in our world. The issue of love is not a new one. Christians (and everyone else) have been struggling with it for centuries. I don't intend to solve the issue in one blog. Never that. That's impossible for one person to accomplish. Only by an act of God will anything be changed dramatically.

I think the best way to start letting God's love shine through us is to start loving our brothers and sisters. In my experience, Christians can be some of the worst when it comes to judging others. Why this happens, I don't have an answer. It could be that we get up on a high horse and think we are better than everyone who's not a Christian. Or maybe we don't take into consideration that not everyone has the same values as us. Whatever the case, churches are one of the most avoided places because people feel JUDGED when they enter. My friends, this should just not be so. When asked, Jesus said the greatest commandment is to love the Lord your God. The second is to love your neighbor as yourself. Now I know a lot of people have heard that verse over and over, but are you REALLY hearing it? Scripture can't be read and then forgotten when you put the Bible down. It has to be allowed to sink in and affect change in our lives. I deal with it too. I could be tired or in a rush so I'll read a couple verses and run off and completely forget. James talks about that as well, but that's for another time.

In John 13, Jesus talks about this concept of loving our brothers and sisters. He says the world should be able to tell we are Christians by the example we set in loving one another. And I'm not just talking about your best friends. I'm talking about the outcasts and the downtrodden and the people who don't naturally draw your attention. I struggle with this too. I'll feel that nudge that says, "Go talk to them." And I ignore it. I don't want to get involved. I don't really like them. I make up excuses to stop that little nudge. But honestly, this is what Jesus was talking about. We HAVE to step out of our comfort zone and embrace them. It could be just what they need.

Please don't let your "comfort zone" get in the way of doing the work of the kingdom of God. I pray He opens your eyes to see those who need help and gives you the spirit and courage to act upon what you see.

Glory in Pain

A few weeks ago at church, my pastor was preaching out of Isaiah 6. In this particular passage, Isaiah was in the presence of God and was absolutely deathly afraid that he was going to be struck down because of his sin. But one of the seraphim took a live coal from the altar and touched his lips and made him clean. It might just be me, but I have a feeling getting touched on lips with something that just came out of the fire would be downright painful.

I think this is something God wants us to get out of this passage that gets overlooked quite a bit. God never told us being cleansed of our sins would be easy. In this instance, even, I think he's telling us that it's going to be difficult and painful and most probably life changing. I know from experience that a lot of times it feels like the pain is pointless and isn't helping you at all. Let me assure you, it really is. God wants to prune us, to cut us off at our sin and make us a new person completely.

Another thing that crossed my mind was that kind of heat would burn enough to leave a scar of some kind. We will never be able to cut out our past and deny it ever happened. It's a part of who we are, where we came from. It's difficult to distinguish dwelling on the past to using it to grow because it really is a fine line. No one should use the past as a reason for not moving forward. Instead it should be a motivation, motivation to move away from the life we once had and to keep moving to the one God has planned for us.

Struggles in this world with temptations and fleshly desires make us stronger in our walk with God. He doesn't expect us to be perfect, just to strive for it. James tells us to be joyful in our trials because it develops strength. Look at it this way. A young tree is weak. It can be bent and broken by the weakest of winds. But as it grows, it gets stronger. And the wind has a harder time pushing it over, taking it to the breaking point. If you take a look at the inner rings of the tree you can tell when it had hard years and it created a unique layer that added to its durability. I believe people are extremely similar. Every tough time and situation gives us a unique depth to us and makes us stronger for the long haul.

I know I hit on a lot of topics, but I really felt these on my heart. I pray that God will bring tough times into your life to test you and draw him closer to you.

The Why

Everyone has a different view on life, on the Bible, on just about everything you can imagine. Personally, I love to get other people's views and learn what's been going on in their life and what they've been learning about themselves and God. There have been many times in my life that I have learned something or discovered something and I haven't had the ability to let people know and maybe enlighten them maybe just a little more, or cause them to think a little more about the issue.

One of the issues I ran into while creating my blog was the name. I'm definitely not the only blogger who's had an issue coming up with the PERFECT blog name, so I'm not going to pretend to be. But I wanted to give some insight into why I chose THIS name. Since this is going to be a somewhat serious blog, I wanted a somewhat serious name that had more than just face value. So began the incredible journey to find a name that would accomplish all of that. And along came "Wadi." A wadi is generally an oasis in the midst of a wasteland. This has a couple meanings in regards to my blog and my life. 1. Life in this world really is hard and many times we are looking for a place to rest. A place that is safe and will stay that way for the long run. Jesus is that resting place for me, and for many others. Secondly, I want my blog to be different than many blogs that are full of social junk and gossip. I want my readers to feel safe when reading my blog, but I also want them to feel challenged. A life without challenges really isn't a life at all. If we go through our Christian walk without once feeling struggle then something's not right.

Another thing I want to mention about my blog. This isn't about me and I don't want it to be. Everything I'm sharing has been revealed to me by the Holy Spirit. In no way do I think I know everything, because I absolutely don't. You are welcome to disagree with anything I say because I'm not perfect. I actually encourage you to start thinking about things I say and come up with your own opinion.

 I hope you will walk with me on this journey of revelation.